Dear friend,
Do you feel as the same kind of situation is repeating itself but in different versions? Have you asked yourself what universe is trying to tell you? You know that we keep experience the same over and over again until we have learned the lessons that needs to be learned. Pay attention to how you feel. If there is something that triggers you. There might be circumstances that brings out not so very pleasent sides of you. You might find yourself acting defensively or aggressively. You might even end up in situations over and over again that upsets you or makes you sad. Ask yourself what made me feel this way? And go deep within. It is never ever about the other person. That person only helped (yes helped!) you to have a look into your own shadow. So instead of blaming and accusing anyone for treating you badly – ask yourself what is it within you that allows this to happen?
So instead of acting out your feelings on that person - be honest with yourself and try to figure out what you need to change in your own vibration so you stop attracting the same situation over again. Maybe you feel as people are taking you for granted? People expect you to always be there and give a helping hand? This might indicate that you are not valuing yourself high enough and respecting your own needs – which allows family and friends around you to do the same. Treat you unconsciously disrespectfully.
We know these are difficult questions to ask. It takes strength to be honest with oneself. It is trillions times easier to put the blame on someone else and keep repeating the same story over again in complete ignorance and blindness. In the end we have to ask ourselves, if we want to be slaves under other people´s behaviour or if we are willing to take control and responsability over our own lives. That regarding every single aspect of our lives.
We encourage you to pay attention. From the biggest to the smallest event. Each time someone triggers us it is an opportunity for us to shine some new light in corners that needs an overdose of love.
Today we want to share Marianne Williamson´s powerful words:
“It takes courage…to endure the sharp pains of self discovery rather than choose to take the dull pain of unconsciousness that would last the rest of our lives.”
Love,
Julie & Katrin
